Anonymous asked:

Pay, my uncle is ridiculously conservative and openly and proudly racist, homophobic, and transphobic. I was going to call him out on this, but he recently started talking about leaving his $1.2 mil house in Las Vegas to me, and the mortgage is almost payed off. If I get on his bad side I'll get nothing, so should I just fake intolerance around him until he dies or call him out and feel good but not get a house?

selfdefensefamily answered:



"Don’t take a nude pic if you’re a famous woman and don’t want it leaked."


"Don’t wear a hoodie if you don’t want to be mistaken for a criminal and shot."

"Don’t get drunk at a party if you don’t want to be sexually assaulted."

"Don’t argue with a cop if you don’t want to get killed."

"Don’t walk home by yourself if you don’t want to get raped."

Victim blaming 101: Everyone should live in fear from ever doing anything.